Charlene, Jerry's wife, describes her experience with Jerry's gender. 

We were married a year later on August 25, 1962, in Omaha, Nebraska.

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Only once (during our second year of marriage) did I expose our secret to someone. It was the day I came home from work and found Jerry "fully dressed." This was the one and only time in all of our marriage that I saw him like that.

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And eventually we moved to another state.

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By the time we moved to Lexington, Kentucky in 1984, we had separated and our marriage was in shambles.

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