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Correspondence: Ephilei's motivation

posted Jun 6, 2009, 12:57 PM by J Baker-Johnson

February 21, 2009

I wonder if this site of your's is merely an attempt at having people validate what you don't necessarily feel confident in- a means of getting support that you lack from close relationships rather than beginning a dialogue with people that know that they find this sinful, questionable and self-serving. You don't come across willing to hear from those who don't have "appreciation", "support" or "need help".   

Mr Suspicious

Hi Mr Suspicious

I feel extremely confident in being and behaving transgender and I always have. See Ephilei's Story.  I receive a lot of support from my close relationships. However, I am not content from being accepted by most people; I want to be accepted by everyone, at least all Christians.

I haven't claimed to be having a dialog, that would require collaborating with someone from "the other side." I have asked Jerry Leach and others to do so, but they have all refused. I do want to be fair and provide access to information. When I tried posting information from gender defenders, I was issued a take down notice. To the extent I do have any dialog is linking to pro-binary sites and books which is above and beyond what any other site does.  If I wasn't willing, I wouldn't have spent the time or money on those books. Whether others believe it or not, I am open to constructive criticism and I would appreciate hearing how I can do better.